“To handle yourself, use your head. To handle others, use your heart” – Eleanor Roosevelt

 

I received some wonderful compliments from my bosses and some guests at the ranch this week. They were unsolicited and genuine. Those compliments left me feeling empowered and appreciated. After I reflected on the week, I noticed those compliments prodded me to see the good in not only what I was doing, but what other people around me were doing. I found myself taking notice and complimenting more. Those kind words that I received created a butterfly effect. I was more confident in myself and that confidence freed my mind to see the good in others.

 

Compliments are the most extraordinary building blocks of a social life. They create a tremendous amount of positive energy on both the giving and receiving end and they help to uplift the moral of both sides. Compliments; however, should not be passed out like candy on Halloween. A false compliment is selfish and it’s only purpose is to serve the person giving it. It’s easily identified and dilutes the power of authentic compliments. I believe that part of your drive in complimenting should be to elicit a sincere effect on the person you are complimenting. A compliment can never be sincere if it’s intended to elicit something in return for you.

 

Giving compliments has never been my strong suit. I get so wrapped up in the “me” of it all that I forget to acknowledge the people around me. You see, giving a compliment shows you are paying attention to more than just yourself. I want to be the person who is able to see past the story of “me”. I want to be the person to start the next butterfly effect. What about you?

 

I’ve included some photos from this week. They don’t have anything to do with the theme of this post, but I’d say they’re pretty good pics! Enjoy!